Diffidence

This is to all the insecurities  I've faced, I love you for making me feel less beautiful. I love you for making me feel weak. You made me stop talking to people, you made me think only of things which I am not capable of. Sometimes you make me feel ‘Empty’. My heart wants to move forward in the race. But you just make me a little less prepared each day I face. “Maybe! You shouldn’t wear this”, “Maybe, its not for you”, “Maybe this is not how you pose” “Ha-ha! You are a sweet potato”. Enough is enough. I am done with all of them. 

                  Self-love isn’t something you wake up with. It’s the constant work and commitment to love your body the way it is day after day. No one will ever give you positive vibes day after day. Its you who should work on it. Be your own motivator. Just sit down and think. Why do you even judge yourself? Why do you feel you are not good? The answer would be we judge ourselves just because we don’t want anyone to judge us. Just remember, you are not a thing to be judged on how much you weigh or how you look. No one in this world deserves that. Everyone in this world is insecure about themselves. It is just how we bring up positive vibes and cheer ourselves. Remember, you are unique. God made you so. Feel proud about that. In life, if you don't face a few risks you haven't lived enough. So every once in a while, take those shoes, let go, and dance on the edge . 

                 Your feelings are important. Expressing them is important. Remember you are not too sensitive by expressing them nor you make others uncomfortable by expressing them. Words said are better than unsaid. Be gentle with yourself and allow yourself to feel your feelings. When people can use 'lol' without laughing, then can also tell things without feeling. Love yourself the way you wish someone did. You don't have to do what everyone else is doing nor behave like everyone else is behaving.

                 Across the board, feeling good increases endurance. Optimism increases grit. Visualize yourself as you want to be. Question your inner critic. Believe you are masterful in both affirming and validating yourself. Make efforts to build self confidence and self love. This was one of them :):

  " You're insecure, don't know what for

    You're turning heads when you walk through the door

    Don't need makeup to cover up

    Being the way that you are is enough "

                                                            - One Direction